Dating a married persian man

High Quality Low Quality. Feel free to add any issue you think we may have missed. I have just gotten into this show about two months ago and have really come to enjoy it and look forward to it every other week. I think every single topic that is discussed is something that is constantly on the minds of myself and my other Iranian friends.

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High Quality Low Quality. Feel free to add any issue you think we may have missed. I have just gotten into this show about two months ago and have really come to enjoy it and look forward to it every other week. I think every single topic that is discussed is something that is constantly on the minds of myself and my other Iranian friends.

We are constantly having these discussions amongst ourselves but its nice to finally have them voiced on radio. I particularly really enjoyed this show because it was a nice issue to talk about and it was very true! I have visited Iran countless times and its very often my highlight of the year. Anyways, with that being said just wanted to give a little bit of background, I genuinely wanted to comment on this show. I, myself, am very susceptible to the double standards that Iranian parents place upon their daughters.

I have a younger brother, who is a whole five years younger than me yet he is already recieving much more leniency than I ever recieved at his age. It always really bugs me. The sad truth is, that the more restrictions placed upon me the more I go against them and finally college gave me some freedom to act on my own wishes. The only thing is, they do not realize that they have given me enough guidelines my whole life that even at college I know what is right and wrong for myself and I know how to act to keep up their pride.

I do care about my parents a lot, but these confinements are too ridiculous. I also have seen on my many recent visits to Iran that the populatino there generally seems to have many more couples than the Iranian community here. I attribute this to the fact that everyone is of one race there. Its much easier to find your respective other when there are 14 million in the case of Tehran only other people in the same city as you that are just like you. That is of course not counting those who are married and the children and elderely but nonetheless its easier to find someone when there are a lot more people your race.

It goes back to I think race and culture playing a key role in how someone picks their respective other. I mean there are plenty of Latin American, African American, Chinese American people here who could serve as singles for the Iranian American community but even those communities like to stay in their own community. Its easier when someone of the same language, culture, and most often religion is surrounding you because it gives much more common ground to relate on.

I, myself, am very cultural. I was just raised around a lot of family and involved in a lot of cultural things growing up like attending Farsi school, doing persian dance and all that stuff that for me dating someone who is not Iranian just would not work. Its not that I have anything against other races its just that I would not relate to them on the same levels and I would like someone to speak Farsi with and be able to share Iranian poetry with.

With that being said, I find it very hard to find eligilble Iranian men around my age because they are too often very stuck up it seems. The guys, however, say that the the Iranian girls are too high-maintenance and expect too much. Iranian guys almost always unless you are a slut looking like you are good for a one night stand wait for the girl to make the move. That really pisses me off, because its pretty true, but also because I find it so hard to believe that every guy is like that and that none of the Iranian guys want to actually settle and have a normal relationship with a girl.

Its also because generally I have found this behavior with Iranian guys not guys in general. American guys or Mexican guys, for example, actually do settle into relationships and stay with them but Iranian guys do not! Anyways, my point is that a lot of double standards are present in the Iranian culture and that as long as these remain guys will treat girls the same way. It just seems hard to find a guy that is decent and wants a genuine relationship.

Im a mexican girl and i met this iranian guy while i was studying in Canada. Im so in love, like never before, hes the best guy ive met before. He is so nice with me, intelligent, we have so much fun together. I had to come back to MExico and we are still boyfriend and girlfriend even though we are far. I just got here to Mexico 2 weeks ago, and he is applying for a work permit for me so i can go back to Canada. Im willing to go, but im wondering about many things. Ive read alot about his religion, and many people are telling me i shouldnt go back, that i must stop this realationship.

He hasnt introduced me to his family, i just know his brother, and his auncle, but i dont know his parents. He tells me his mother is so religous and she has this persian girl she wants him to marry to, but he says he doesnt want to, that he wants to choose his own wife. But even though he is saying he will fight for us, and he has his own beliefs he hasnt talk about me with his mom, which means something.

I dont know if he just wants me to have fun before he marries a persian girl, he says he wants to marry me but after all i have read and being told, i think thats so impossible but he doesnt accept it and neither do i, deep inside me i know this is not going to work but im still talking to him and planning my trip back to Canada. Please i need some advice if i should stop this before this gets worse, because if i go back it will get harder when the relationship has to stop because of his cultural or familiar ties.

I dont know what to tell him if i decide to break off because i dont want him to think that im not willing to fight for us, i would be leaving my home, my family for him and i dont know if he is willingo to do the same thing for me. Claudia, honey, u should stop the relarionship I think, this is an advice from a persian girl! Lol, thats not true at all. I know so many Persian Iranian guys married to black, white, and latino woman and theyve been together for years. I am Canadian with English background Blonde, curvy….

We have such good times together when we go out, which is usually twice a week. He is a business owner and very busy, a workaholic almost…. People have actually come up to us out of the blue and commented on how good we look together and how it shows how much we are into each other…. He tells me how beautiful I am and how he loves being with me but never shares about himself and his feelings….. His just playing with you! They like mexicans with black hair and black eyes and long legs with big you know what, because it reminds them of Iranian Woman.

Then, he will dump you, like a nothing, because right now, you are a nothing to him.. Now, If you were a Dr. Thank you for you comment. It is truly an interesting situation and I can see how hard it can be. Let me first tell you that here at Iranican, we only hold discussion panels regarding issues other Iranians deal with in their lives here in America, and none of us are professional in the fields of our topics.

So I can give you my opinion and some suggestions, and I can also try to shed some light on how the Iranian family dynamic works, but in the end is your decision and none of what I say here is necessarily true in every case. I myself have been raised in a religious family, and I can tell you that that idea of arranged marriage has pretty much gone extinct among younger generation of Iranians. And as far as religion is concerned and his religious family, that could be a source of problems depending on how independent he is.

I can suggest a few good books if you want. The fact that he has traveled to Canada for education, tells me he is pretty independent, and the fact that he is trying to get a work permit for you so you can go back, tells me he is not looking to have fun and marry the Persian girl in the end. He can easily have as much fun as he wants over there without going through the trouble of moving you back to Canada. Again all of these are my personal view on the case you have presented in the blog.

Hope it helps. Did you actually listen to the radio show podcast on Dating Iranican Style? If so how much of it did you understand? Someone should tell Claudia the cold hard truth. Someone should warn the poor girl not to leave her family and life in Mexico and go after this guy in Canada. I am saying this as an Iranian guy who has many Iranian guy friends…. It sounds like you feel happy to have found a great guy, but that you are unsure about what to do next. Trust yourself. If you have concerns about your relationship, they exist for a reason.

It may be helpful to check in with yourself about this and take some time to reflect on your beliefs about relationships. How much should you sacrifice for love? What do you have the right to expect from your partner in return for these sacrifices? While Iranican attempts to bring the views of young Iranians to the public, it is important to recognize the endless amount of diversity and variation in the cultural understandings and practices that each Iranian chooses for himself or herself.

This is why it is particularly important that you talk to your boyfriend about what you both want to do. An open conversation about your needs and expectations as well as the effect that this choice is going to have on both your lives may make your final decision much clearer. Thank you for contacting us and please feel welcome to write back. You really think this guy would run after getting her work permit in Canada, just to use her?

In fact it could be offensive to those who are not in such categories. To Claudia, you should go with what you heart is telling you.. Im Hispanic and I use to date a Persian guy for about 1 year in a half. He is a great guy till this day we still keep In contact. Even tho we are no longer together. Are relationship ended because of the long distance.

Cause that was the way my parent raised us. Till this day I still ask my self what would of happened if I where to have moved in with him to another state. I still care for him and I beleave that if we where meant to be then some day we will be together. I truly hope that he mans up and tells his family aswell for you.

I wish you and your guy the best. I am a Filipina and I dated Iranian guys 2 but not at the same time. Both are dentistry students. The recent Iranian guy i had relationship only lasted for 12 days. He always check me and ask to me to go out with him.

With that said, here are 12 things that happen when you date an Persian guy: 1. There will be food and AKA until he gets married. Make him put a ring on it if. I'm dating a half Iranian-half black guy right now. He's the If I'm going to deal with all of that then I might as well marry my fellow west Africans.

Hi there, we use cookies to improve your experience on our website. You can update your settings by clicking the Privacy policy link at the bottom of the page. I am a blonde haired American who is dating an Iranian guy in the States. I want to either travel with him to Iran or meet him there to be close to him while he completes a project there for a number of months.

He was an amazing boyfriend; they had a great relationship; things were going swimmingly; until all of a sudden, he broke up and married a girl he had never met.

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Mobile dating and. So very simple, is the things that i really thought of the iranian descent? Results 1 - nowadays online meeting, this app. An persian dating website that date woven into american civic and also depends on the finest global dating a little too early for. Every day.

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I learned Farsi, because I wanted to. I learned Farsi by buying and reading a crazy amount of Persian books, reading the Persian newspaper, listening to Radio Iran, and asking an immense amount of questions to my spouse at the time, his family, and his friends. As well, for all of my annoying and repeatedly asked questions to them, they were loving enough to take the time out to respond, and I thank them for that. I used to go as far as cutting up the vocabulary section at the end of each chapter in a book. I had the best teacher ever , and I even kept her as a friend. I have two amazing children that I adore more than life itself. I taught myself how to speak Farsi, and I did so predominantly so that one day, I could speak to my children in their native tongue, if and when I had them. The list: If you want to be called Persian, fine.

Deciding which Persian dating site is right for you can be a difficult decision. There are many sites that market themselves towards Persian singles, and each and every one says they're the best choice of all.

Hi there, we use cookies to improve your experience on our website. You can update your settings by clicking the Privacy policy link at the bottom of the page. I am an American, married to a Persian husband, now a naturalized American citizen. We are wondering what the issues would be for me to travel to Iran and finally be able to meet his family.

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Marriage is one of the most important issues that happens for most of the people in the world and probably is the most important one! Based on differences in cultures, histories, religions, societies and so on, the ways people start dating, fall in love, and marry differ in the countries all over the world. Also, the ways people celebrate marriage ceremonies are dissimilar in the countries based on those differences. Being in an English learning for international students class, I think hope! The way people start dating in Iran is highly dependent on the family they were born. Generally, we have two extreme categories for Iranian families. Having this attitude in mind, a probable question coming to mind is that so how boys and girls in religions families meet each other for the first time while they should not have any relationships before marriage? In this meeting, families as well as the boy and the girl talk to each for about hours to get to know each other. It is really Ridiculous!!!!! In this period, the couple is officially in the relationship and try to know more each other. I think you are more familiar with these families than the previous category. These families allow their children to have relationships before they want to get married.

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Well, it is a nice post sharing good information and allowing people to be aware about both the sides of being in a relationship. Getting married and dating both are differently enjoyed by the folks everywhere and most of the folks prefer to stay away from wedding. Various online dating websites are allowing features to find the best Iranian girl and Iranian woman and websites like these are allowing people to find a date and to spend some time to decide if they can marry that girl. As a persian man.. I must admit that ur right AND I , as persian man.. CUS Persian women are impossible to satisfy and don t know the meaning of true love.

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Iran has caught the Internet dating bug big time and the preferred app du jour is Telegram, an encrypted messaging service that has also become the favored medium for political campaigns. During recent parliamentary elections, former president Mohammad Khatami used Telegram to urge Iranians to vote for a so-called List of Hope. Not long ago, young men and women would ride around in cars at night and cruise for possible assignations. At first, the service was so slow that this writer remembers dialing up and going to the kitchen to put on a kettle for tea while waiting for the inbox to appear. Those who used the Internet on a regular basis were so far and few between that its future seemed sketchy at best.

In principle, separate wedding parties for men and women, no kissing and touching in public, secret dates, staying reserved about matters of sexuality. However, I suppose young Iranians must have found their way how to live with this phenomenon. Young people are usually so witty and courageous in overcoming any obstacles in love. I wanted to know more. How Iranians fall in love, get married, how they live their love lives in Iran. Luckily, I have some Iranian friends who answered my curious questions. The very first thing I wanted to know about dating in Iran was where young Iranians go for a date. And where do potential couples meet?

Images of Iran, the historic center of Persian culture, evoke a fascinating blend of tradition and independence, the civilizing influence of the past and the sophistication of the modern era. If you are a newcomer to the Persian dating scene, you can feel more at home in this culture by learning some basic rules of Persian social behavior. Learn at least a few words of Farsi. It's amazing how much goodwill you can earn simply by making this small effort. Show respect for gender customs.


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